Finding Your Surrogacy Partner: Top 10 Questions to Ask When Searching for a Surrogacy Agency
Bringing a child into the world is a beautiful journey filled with joy and excitement. However, for some, the path to parenthood may require a little extra assistance, and that’s where surrogacy comes in. If you’re considering surrogacy as an option to expand your family, finding the right surrogacy agency is crucial. To help you navigate this important decision, we’ve compiled a list of the top 10 questions to ask when searching for a surrogacy agency. Rest assured, your dreams of parenthood are within reach.
Question 1: “What Services Do You Offer?”
Before diving in, make sure you’re clear on what the surrogacy agency provides. Some agencies offer comprehensive services that guide you through every step, while others may only focus on matching you with a surrogate. Determine your needs and ensure the agency aligns with them.
Question 2: “What Are Your Fees, and Are There Hidden Costs?” Understanding the financial aspect is crucial. Ask for a detailed breakdown of fees and expenses associated with the surrogacy process. Ensure there are no hidden costs that could catch you off guard, and be sure to understand how much you should budget both as a general budget and for contingencies.
Question 3: “What’s Your Experience in Surrogacy?”
Experience matters in the world of surrogacy. Ask about the agency’s track record, how long they’ve been in business, and the number of successful surrogacy journeys they’ve facilitated. This will give you confidence in their ability to support you.
Question 3: “Are you licensed or registered in any States? Do you have any industry certifications?”
Surrogacy is largely unregulated, which means some Agencies are fly-by-night and come and go in and out of business. But, New York introduced a rigorous Surrogacy Certification process in 2021 for Agencies, that Agencies can elect to enter. This certification certifies they follow the most rigorous standards, and have the best processes in place. Simple Surrogacy was among the first Agencies to be certified and our certification is current. In addition, Simple Surrogacy are members of all the professional Surrogacy organizations, RESOLVE, SEEDS, ASRM, Men Having Babies and Gays with Kids, sitting on the boards of several of those organizations.
Question 4: “What Support Do You Provide for Legal Matters?”
Surrogacy involves complex legal procedures. Ask the agency to walk you through the legal aspects, including contracts, parental rights, and the laws in your state or country. A knowledgeable agency will help ensure a smooth legal process, including referrals to expert attorneys. It’s essential to have legal support throughout your surrogacy journey. Inquire about the agency’s legal resources and how they’ll protect your rights and interests during the process.
Question 5: “How Do You Screen and Match Surrogates?”
Learn about the agency’s screening process for potential surrogates. Understanding how they match surrogates with intended parents based on preferences and values will help you build a strong connection.
Question 6: “Are you currently involved, or have ever been involved in any Lawsuits? Have you ever lost client escrow funds?
You should always do a google search of your Agency to make sure there is no pending litigation or lawsuits that can affect your journey with them. There have been several well-known agencies lately that are involved in lawsuits between Agency Owners, and a very well known agency that had an employee steal Escrow funds that are still not repaid, resulting in Surrogates losing payments and Intended Parents losing money. Making sure to do a check on your Agency of consideration, and asking them directly about any issues like these, can ensure your Agency is not in danger of going out of business or losing your hard-earned funds.
Question 7: “What Emotional Support Do You Offer?”
Surrogacy can be emotionally challenging for all parties involved. Inquire about the emotional support services provided by the agency, such as counseling or support groups, to help you cope with the ups and downs of the journey.
Question 8: “How Do You Ensure Medical Care for Surrogates?”
The well-being of the surrogate is paramount. Ask about the agency’s approach to supporting the Surrogate’s medical care, including prenatal care and emergency support, to ensure the surrogate’s health is well taken care of.
Question 9: “Can You Share Success Stories and References?”
Hearing about successful surrogacy journeys can be inspiring. Request to hear success stories from previous clients and ask for references. This will give you insight into the agency’s ability to fulfill your dreams.
Question 10: “Do you offer any guarantees?”
Most Agencies charge tens of thousands of dollars to ensure a guarantee in their Surrogacy Program. Simple Surrogacy’s program is a guarantee already, on their end, and when paired with your clinic’s guarantee of a baby program, ensures a baby will be born without additional charges for surrogate rematching should that be required.
Conclusion
As you embark on the remarkable journey of surrogacy, these ten questions will serve as your compass, guiding you toward the right surrogacy agency. Remember, this process is a partnership filled with hope and possibilities. Trust your instincts, ask the right questions, and take the first step towards welcoming your bundle of joy into the world.
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