Surrogacy as an intended parent involves several distinct stages, from choosing the type of surrogacy that fits your situation to navigating matching, medical screening, and legal steps. The process is more manageable than it initially seems, particularly with the right agency and support structure in place. Going into it with honest expectations and open communication makes the entire experience considerably more positive.
The decision to grow a family through surrogacy is rarely a simple one. It often comes after considerable thought, and sometimes after significant loss or difficulty along the way. Surrogacy as an intended parent offers a path to parenthood for people who might otherwise feel that path has closed.
Being familiar with the process helps it feel less daunting. At Simple Surrogacy, we have guided intended parents through every stage of this journey since 2002. Let’s help you feel prepared and cared for from the very beginning.
Surrogacy as an intended parent looks different depending on personal circumstances. This includes intended mothers who cannot carry a pregnancy, same-sex couples, single parents, and individuals facing infertility. Each situation follows a structured process designed to create a stable path to parenthood.
Two main types of surrogacy are typically considered:
Being honest about what you want from the beginning, including the kind of surrogate you hope to match with, lays the foundation for a healthy, well-matched partnership. Surrogates are partnering with you to help bring your family to life, and open communication from the start makes that relationship work.
Exploring the full picture of becoming a surrogate from the surrogate’s perspective can also help intended parents understand what their surrogate is going through.
Finding the right surrogate is one of the most meaningful parts of the journey. At Simple Surrogacy, we take a highly individualized approach to matching, considering your preferences, values, and expectations alongside the surrogate’s profile and history.
Every prospective surrogate completes a detailed screening process that include:
This level of vetting protects intended parents and gives everyone involved a strong foundation to build on.
The Surrogate Medical Screening Process for intended parents typically involves a review of medical history alongside infectious disease screening. If you have already had frozen embryos created, you may not need to undergo the full medical screening yourself. In that case, the screening applies primarily to the surrogate.
Texas is known for having some of the most surrogacy-friendly laws in the United States. Working with a Texas-based surrogate can create meaningful legal and financial advantages for intended parents.
At Simple Surrogacy, we have pre-negotiated rates with experienced reproductive attorneys, resulting in significant savings compared to other states. Texas follows a two-step legal process regardless of sexual orientation, making the path to legal parenthood as accessible as possible.
The Intended Parents we work with come from all different backgrounds and circumstances. However, they share one thing in common: the desire to build a family. Each journey follows a structured process, yet there is flexibility in how communication, involvement, and expectations are shaped.
Surrogacy as an intended parent is a deeply personal experience, and families often have more input than they initially expect. A clear understanding of each stage helps reduce stress and creates a more stable emotional experience throughout the process.
Approaching the journey with realistic expectations makes each step feel more intentional rather than overwhelming.
Having the right team around you during this process is what turns a complicated experience into a meaningful one. Simple Surrogacy is here to walk alongside you every step of the way, answering questions, making introductions, and handling the details so you can stay focused on what matters most. Contact us and tell us where you are in your journey.
Yes. Matching is a collaborative process, not a unilateral decision made by the agency. Intended parents share their preferences and expectations. Those are carefully weighed alongside the surrogate’s profile before any introduction is made. Both parties need to feel comfortable with the match before moving forward.
An unsuccessful transfer does not end the journey. Most intended parents have additional embryos available for subsequent attempts. The medical team reviews the outcome and adjusts the protocol as needed before the next transfer. Having multiple embryos prepared can reduce emotional and logistical pressure during this stage.
Yes. Texas welcomes international intended parents and has a well-established legal framework for handling international surrogacy arrangements. Simple Surrogacy has experience working with families from over 20 countries and can help navigate the additional legal and logistical considerations that come with international journeys.
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